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Updated: Apr 4


It’s April the 2nd, and here in the south that means one thing. The pollen is out. I don’t know if it’s the same in your neck of the woods, but here in central Alabama, everything is yellow. Our cars are covered in a yellow coat of pollen. My front porch (and everything on it) is now thick with yellow dust. Even if you couldn’t see the pollen on every single thing, you would know it has arrived just by listening to Harold. 

Or Amy.

Or Griffin.

Or suddenly…after almost 72 years - ME! I seem to have developed the seasonal allergies that have plagued my family for years.  Last weekend, I found myself with the allergy symptoms that are so common: runny nose, facial congestion, sneezing, coughing, and itchy, watery eyes.



The bed cover on the back of Harold's truck is covered with pollen.
The bed cover on the back of Harold's truck is covered with pollen.


Harold has always had bad allergies. He takes allergy medication every single day; allergy season or not. Amy inherited the bad allergy trait from her daddy. Griffin may have it worse than any of them. Bless his heart, this time of year has always been brutal for him. When he was growing up, there was nothing that we could do to help him. Amy and Shawn tried every kind of medication on the market. The only thing that gave him any kind of relief was when Amy learned about an essential oil remedy. She would use grapeseed oil as a carrier oil, and add lemon, peppermint, and lavender oils to a glass roller ball. Griffin would apply this concoction to his throat, on his chest, and even under his nose. I promise you it worked better than anything. Let me tell you, if it’s spring time, you won’t catch Griffin without one of his oil roller ball bottles. He still uses them to this day. 



The makings of Griffin's "allergy bomb" rollers.
The makings of Griffin's "allergy bomb" rollers.


It is my job to be on social media, so I see a lot of what people post. I recently noticed a lot of posts about the pollen this year. I have even commented about how bad it is. Wouldn’t you know, God used something as silly as pollen to teach me a lesson?


Just last night I was about to type something about how much I disliked the pollen on my porch, and God spoke to me. Now before you ask me, I didn’t hear an audible voice. I just felt Him speaking to my heart. He said, “Sue, you can look at it as a nuisance, or you can choose to see it a different way. You need to look for the good.” 


What? It’s POLLEN. What in the world is good about the pollen?



This is one of the chair covers on my wicker chair. I moved the cushion away and look at the pollen outline!
This is one of the chair covers on my wicker chair. I moved the cushion away and look at the pollen outline!


Well, for one thing, pollen means that it’s spring time. Spring is my favorite time of the year. Spring means new growth, working in my yard, planting flowers. Springtime is when Shawn and I get the garden ready to plant. Spring is what we look forward to after the doldrums of winter. Another good thing about the pollen is that it makes the flowers grow. Without pollen, there wouldn’t be any new growth. Like my pastor Jason Allums says, “that will preach.” Isn’t that just like our walk with God? We have to go through some difficult times in order to grow. In the grand scheme of things, our temporary discomfort is okay when we enjoy a beautiful spring day, work in our growing flowers, and see the earth come alive again after a cold winter.


God used something as silly as me wanting to complain about pollen to teach me a lesson. He’s good like that. He is always wanting to speak to us. All we have to do is listen.


How is the pollen where you live? Do you have seasonal allergies like my people do? What do you do for them? Leave me a comment and let me know. The pollen isn’t going anywhere, so we might as well help each other learn to live with it. I know that when I see my yellow-dusted car today, I won’t complain like I might have yesterday. I am going to say, “Thank you, God for the pollen. I know it will bring the flowers soon.”


“See I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up, do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” Isaiah 43:19

 
 
 

If you're at all like me, you love a good shower. It doesn't matter if it's a wedding shower, a baby shower, or even a holiday shower - I love them all. I wonder how many showers I have attended over the years. I bet it's in the hundreds!


The beautiful bride-to-be, Sara Grace, and her handsome almost groom, Jacob
The beautiful bride-to-be, Sara Grace, and her handsome almost groom, Jacob

This past weekend, Amy and I were hostesses for a bridal shower for dear family friends. Honestly, I consider them family; we're just not "kin" by blood. Jacob is the son of Jake and Ashley. Jake and Ashley grew up with Amy and Shawn, they have been friends forever, Jake played ball with Shawn and Chris, Harold coached Jake and his brother, and Jake and Ashley even bought our house before we moved where we live now. That's a mouthful! See what I mean about us practically being family? Sara Grace and Jacob will be getting married on June 28th of this year. June is a popular month for weddings. I was a June bride; Harold and I married on June 17th. Our children, Amy and Chris both married in June. In fact, they both married on June 28th (1997 and 2003, respectfully). How ironic that Sara Grace and Jacob will share their same anniversary.


I don't know if it's like this where you live, but bridal and baby showers are big deals in the south. Jacob's mother, Ashley, planned this one and it was executed to perfection. Shower food is my favorite! The hostesses selected items to bring. I made my homemade chicken salad and fixed sandwiches on croissants. The recipe can be found in my Volume 4 cookbook, Simply Salads. Amy made my homemade pimento cheese. We also had a delicious layer cake and cupcakes, pasta salad, ham roll-ups, fresh fruit and dip, veggies with ranch, and the most amazing punch in the world. The punch is famous in our town. I would bet that it's a favorite in our region of the state - not just our town! It's called "Fran's Punch." A precious lady (our mayor's mother) used to own a BBQ Restaurant with her late husband. The BBQ was incredible, and I promise the punch was addictive. She won't disclose her recipe (and I can't blame her), but she will make it to sell for special occasions. Any time Fran's punch is on the menu, you have happy folks. It has a taste of lemon, orange, pineapple, and something special that I can't quite put my finger on. It may just be the sweetness of the precious soul making it, Mrs. Frances Perkins. I have had a LOT of punch in my many years on this earth. but none compares to Fran's Punch.



One end of the food table, with ham roll ups, my chicken salad croissants, pasta salad, fruit, and the star of the show - Fran's Punch (served in Ashley's mother's punch bowl).
One end of the food table, with ham roll ups, my chicken salad croissants, pasta salad, fruit, and the star of the show - Fran's Punch (served in Ashley's mother's punch bowl).

Another side of the food table.
Another side of the food table.

Amy was nervous to make my pimento cheese because she said she had never made it for that many people before. She sent me this picture and asked me if it looked ok. I told her it looked just like I made it! This recipe can be found in my Volume 1 cookbook.


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I thought that it was so special that she served it from a crystal bowl that she got at her bridal shower 28 years ago! The glass platter that she served the crackers on was also a gift from her bridal shower.



Amy's homemade pimento cheese and crackers served on gifts from her bridal shower.
Amy's homemade pimento cheese and crackers served on gifts from her bridal shower.

Showers are important events in the south. I am always blessed when I attend one, and even more so when I get to help host one. I love to socialize with everyone there, and I love the yummy foods. I also think it is important to remember to pray for the ones being honored at the shower. I know I will be praying for Sara Grace and Jacob to have a long, and happy marriage. I hope you will join me in praying for God's blessings on their upcoming marriage.


Do you like showers? What is your favorite shower food? Leave me a comment and let me know. I love to hear from you! Remember to be salt and light.



The hostesses with the beautiful bride-to-be. Ashley, Jacob's mother, is on the far left.
The hostesses with the beautiful bride-to-be. Ashley, Jacob's mother, is on the far left.

 
 
 
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